Pre-Questions
1. Stephen R. Covey writes, "Most people do not listen with the intent to understand; they listen with the intent to reply." Do you feel this statement is accurate? Why or why not?
I feel that this statement is accurate. I think that we listen with the intent to reply because most people nod or say that they understand what the person is saying to move on to other things. We have become a very fast-paced culture, and we do not take the time to try to understand what other people are saying. You can see this evident in how many divorces happen because of a breakdown of communication and in our politics with how the two sides of Democrat and Republican can't agree.
2. Give an example of a time when you have used a listening barrier that caused a miscommunication. How can you prevent listening barriers from happening?
In classes after finishing a big test from a previous class, I have used the listening barrier of Self-focus. I can avoid listening
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Give an example of how the speaker used an emotional appeal.
Ilyse makes an emotional appeal when she says about politicians making decisions for women and families, "America thrives when no one is allowed to impose their personal morality on others. It's what separates us from so many countries around the world where woman is not free."
6. Give a specific example of fallacy in reasoning during the speech. Be sure to identify the particular fallacy and the part of the speech that you feel fits the fallacy. Explain why.
A particular fallacy that Ilyse uses includes personal attack. She uses personal attack when she mentions that she looked up the word obsessive in the dictionary and it fits perfectly with the anti-choice movement. What she says fits with personal attack fallacy because she is verbally assaulting her opponent's position by calling them compulsive and unreasonable.
7. Write why or why not you felt this speech was credible. Use examples from the speech to justify your
When sound waves are transformed by the electrochemical impulses into the brain, the wonderful sense of hearing is experienced. Listening is actually paying attention to the speaker and understanding what was said. Hearing is being able to hear what is said but not understand the meaning of the speech. Hearing and listening are essential elements to comprehending and determining what was recently received by the audience. Here are some methods to enhance the listening environment for the audience involves: minimizing potential disturbances, divert the audience with the appearance of speaker, delivery method of the speaker must be entertaining, deferring discernment, focusing on listening and develop note taking skills. In my opinion, I believe practicing on obtaining the undivided attention of the audience while keeping an open mind is a good method to
2. Find three sources. At least one of the three sources must be a peer-reviewed source. Explain how these three sources will be used during your Persuasive Speech. Why did you select these particular sources for your speech?
As a student I work hard to get good grades and I am very outgoing. I concentrate during class. Even though I am very busy I study hard for tests and I make sure I take good notes. I study 3 days before the day of the test for 10 minutes. In school I am not afraid to ask questions. If I am confused about something I will ask the teacher to help me. I also participate in class. If the teacher asks the class a question I will do my best to answer it. As a student I am not afraid to speak my mind. I also ask for help when I am struggling with something. I say what I think about a question that was asked. If I don’t understand something I will ask questions without hesitating. Last year in Mrs. Klutz’s class she asked us what we thought about
Recall & describe two specific incidents from any of your jobs, or school situations, in which you had difficulty listening effectively. Relate these examples to the class readings for this chapter. Remember to use in-paper citation format. (Minimum 60 words). Include word count at the end
Be that as it may, there are challenges that we face in active listening.One challenge I can relate to is trying to listen to more then one conversation at a time, this can include having the television on while attempting to listen to someone
He also brought up how intention was a great way to show the person you are listening and engaged and want to listen. A fun little fact he shared that was inside the lecture was that if they closed their eyes they would know the size or the room and be aware of the people around them just by the vibrations of sound and the micro noises that they are hearing that captured my attention and I just thought it was very interesting. There is a way of listening and there is a way to listen in many different environment and to be aware. I was able to learn the meaning to these many different styles which caught my eye and interested
Describe a situation in which critical and creative thought could have been used for a better outcome. Describe why it is important to think critically and creative in similar situations.
Three elements of active listening that I consider crucial for addressing the aforementioned issues are withhold judgment, ask for clarifications, and sharing experiences. Active listening shows that the listener is concern regarding the message and/or the person conveying it. By paying attention to the speaker, the listener is more capable to focus on important elements of the message being sent, (Janasz, Dowd, & Schneider, 2009). Withholding judgments refers to approach a topic with an open mind; additionally, it implies avoiding criticism, arguments, or disregarding other people’s views. When there is a doubt or we are not clear at all with a message, the listener should always ask for clarifications. However, it is indispensable to do so in a respectful manner. Sharing experiences might help to understand others perspectives. Moreover, it can help the other parties to share their experiences as well, (What does it…,
Active listening is a method for tuning in and reacting to someone else that enhances common comprehension. For the most part, when two individuals converse with each other, the listening individual does not focus on what is being said. They can become noticeably absent minded. At the point when individuals are occupied with a contention, they are frequently bustling figuring a reaction to what is being said. They accept that they have heard what their rival is stating ordinarily some time recently, so instead of focusing, they concentrate on how they can react to win the argument.
During my readings throughout this course, I have learned how to improve my communication skills. This week that struck my attention was the different types of listening barriers that I notice affect me and I need to work on. The one I know that I need to work on are physical barriers. According to Burley-Allen (1995), a physical barrier can in influence on how someone listens efficiency. One being for me personally is becoming fatigue. When trying to concentrate on an important conversation when I become exhausted I become less attentive to the conversation. I will miss out on important details because I start to think of things that need to be completed. For an example, I have noticed when I am working all day then at the end
We need to be able to pick up on what is important during conversations and speeches. One example is taking notes during a lecture. It is nearly impossible to write down every single word that the lecturer says, so we need to be able to pick up on what is important. Bacal (n.d.) states, “undertaking some other activity while another person is speaking is not effective listening” (Listen up!). He goes on to list examples such as checking the time, answering the phone, and even taking excessive notes as ineffective listening. While we try to listen to others, we need to remember that not everything is equally important. In the article Causes of poor listening (2015), we learn that the information we need to know is often delivered with irrelevant information. We as listeners need to learn to listen and judge what is important and relative to the task at
What is your most powerful and persuasive response to the reasons and rationalizations you need to address? To whom should the argument be made? When and in what
Question: Compare and contrast the arguments of the speeches. Which argument do you find the most compelling? Why?
effectively. Many students think they hear what is said is the same as to hear what is said. In fact, they are distinctly different. "Audience" is still a passive physical act that involves the process and function of the perception of sound. 'Listen' is to hear sounds with the deliberate intention. Therefore, contrary to the hearing, listening is a skill enhancement through effort and conscious practice.
Many people do not recognize that listening is not solely the act of hearing a noise but of paying close consideration to what someone is stating and trying to learn the message that they are attempting to relate to you. Most times people say they are hearing when in all actuality they are merely hearing you but not even trying to understand what is being spoken of. The many advantages of being a good listener are endless. This skill can positively affect many elements of our everyday life and communication with people. Nonetheless, it is an experienced that is oftened neglected in today’s careless society. The purpose I believe that listening is of such importance is because nowadays people have acquired the mentality of “every man for himself.” People are not concerned about their associates anymore. We are only concerned about our own problems and concerns. Listening is a skill that is gained throughout a lifetime. It is an important virtue when it comes to communication.People should be trained from childhood the effect of learning how to listen. If we realized how much we would profit from being good listeners, I believe that things would improve. Lack of listening skills can affect marriages, parents, and children, teachers and students, employers and employees, international affairs, the list goes on. If a husband and wife discovered to sit down and actually listen to each other, they could dodge many misunderstandings that often lead to arguments, separation and